HOW TO GAIN CONFIDENCE AND BOLDNESS

HOW TO LIVE WITH BOLDNESS  AND  CONFIDENCE

It is a different thing to have boldness and confidence; to knowing that tribulations and trials are like fertilizers to effectual boldness. Trials in life are like the school examination questions set before us  for answers but the student who have no researched knowledge pre-prepared to tackle the questions would fail woefully.

So, is the issue of boldness in life .To be bold is not of the size of money or quantity of material possession ,not of fame-as some would say the people you know matters, as in, your connection.Its about the quality of the content in you!. Your content are  worth  of  you.What you  know, the type of knowledge you have.Do you even have any content at all? some live life without none form of education either formal nor informal while some read only to pass examination and not to acquire sustainable knowledge to build themselves for the betterment of the society at large and other says  getting money is the “only thing”by which they are bewitched.

Naturally, it be that one may have money and  as well  have confidence  to add on, or the one can have money and as well lack boldness because Its a disputed fact that money is not confidence.money can buy temporal  or artificial protection but could not produce security but to have value is confidence. For instance, a lady recently said to me the people don’t read but i disagreed with fact. She forgot that the God  of  the  people  is  a  reader ,  the author of the holy scripture ,a God of knowledge.In the Bible it is said "the people perish for lack of knowledge and also without faith no man can see GOD"

But I wonder if reading is that hard, is not. Other than its negligence on the side of the  ignorant. Of course yes!. To me reading is fun, It’s to know, to obtain understanding , just as the G.S.M phone you ‘re having in your hand have a manual and your responsibility is to know the use for it value then it warrant you read it. Thus, I say reading is knowing.

Therefore boldness and confidence is meet need of a fervent reader even of the knowledge and revelation of the counsel of God.

Anyone who does not bath in daily learning would dehydrate spiritually, physically. in this regard dehydration means lack of boldness or confidence. when you read you get to know more and you learn to know everything about yourself, how to relate to others, make best  decisions .Think of  this.is  the means you build more boldness and trust in your person.

Dig into life by learning or studying, its by this you could portray decent actions and attitudes.

If one lack boldness they misbehave and when golden opportunity comes their way. They mess it up or loss it out because they weren’t prepared for it.  The People  with  lack of boldness or knowledge waste money of course they have  no idea of real investment. Like a professor of philosophy once said to me” the problem  of  the  people is poverty of the mind”. For real when the mind is poor confidence is lost, and poverty in all of its ramification takes over.
your life,feeling,action is controlled and determine by your self concept.louise hay, the writer, says that the roots of most of our problems in life are contained in feeling.Feelings of inferiority which is without experience or lack of ability becomes habitual as a result of limited ideas for many people because of their negative attitude toward learning.The fact is that you could be more confident and bold than you could ever think in your entire life if only you would build an effective reading habit.
Feelings whether fuss or positive are made up of our beliefs,and your belief determine your confidence.They are the result of information you have taken in throughout your life and the way you have processed that information.Your beliefs are shaped and formed by your early childhood,your friends and associate,your reading and your education,your experiences- both positive and negatives-and a thousand other factors.  
Some people act inferior because they feel ,they are not up to the standard because they have no value to back up their beliefs and that becomes an obstacle between them and the realization of their full potential.It's either you possess intelligence or you have nothing and then you are swallow.
Each person is capable of achieving excellence in some way,then your responsibility to your self is to cast off all those self limiting beliefs and accept that you are capable and proof the fact that self limiting beliefs are not true,because we came into this world with no belief at all and today some "know" a lot of things by learning.
The good news about beliefs is that all beliefs are learned and thereby confidence is developed.