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This is Certainly a calculated praying drama either to 
provoke answer for a yearning only God can answer.
The other day i was in a ride with my newly made friend 
prince Adeleye Abolade, we met just freshly at PHCN mus-
hin district office just as GOd would have it baba willingly
offered me a ride in his fully air conditoined Toyota camery 
and not too long as we turbo on we got into talk as one keke 
rider overtook us that got him upset, and he said, 
Please take my apology, i dont like this guys, they will suddenly
over-take you without sign, he expressed his feeling on how
the political administrators of the past rule had sold Nig-
eria out to foreigners from other African country who now
are like puting  the fire on the roof and you are inside on the
bed.But just as i listen on and he drove on now along a two way 
demarcated motor road coming out to Mushin ,Ojuelegba motor 
way, suddenliy i saw a scene of about a  thousand people 
blocking one side of the motor lane heading to Mushin
all on praying mat , few are on standing. And after we
had drove past them for about thirty seconds, my 
hought pulse siad sir , please may i go on and take a 
shoot of what am seeing? and he said why not, but 
before i could bring my camera to setting we had past the main
spot but i got what we have here up here on this story.
We got to do best to be aware of our environment, let be
vigilant and concerned as we approach daily life business, it is 
our joint responsibility to secure this  place with honor and 
respect for others. Nigeria is a life to live, a gift from God
who spared mankind by mercy to work and  move on the
land and move freely on it with  the right protected to
settle anywhere. And there must be respect for
the land , no spewing of blood on the land in disregard to
the other people's boundaries and all of that.
Respect is made of God so man is made
to give respect to the choice of the other people. 

  

  

   RESPECT IS NOT AGE.

The gain of cool approach_ calm rapt attention.

                   Respect is reciprocal shows Respect is not age but means character, so i say Respect is Character.What you give reciprocate back to you, you gave me respect irrespective of my age, so surely you will be expecting same back from me but if otherwise is the flow from you, you certainly gonna get it back, then its not  properly believed Age is respect and this is the reason for saying respect is  not Age. Well, it  may be that you want it back from me is the option why you're giving the respect anyway. In the military there is no such believe or practice when a senior rank is 

under arrest and  ordered to be arrested by the ruling Authority. when he get to him, what you hear first is a complimentary salute and there after arrest him regardless of his top rank over the warrant officer. 

 In the public bus, if a young chap get up from a sit for an elderly to occupy perhaps he doing that naturally because  he must have thought him equal to his father or uncle's mate so he should regard him as such but not under must should he behave that way but choosing to personally. This life is unpredictable ,some young folks with excellent way of life, in their thinking , responses are so unique but some elders can be wrong at times and will remain still demanding respect for their unjustifiable wrong all because of age seniority. This is where rift get into their relationship and cursing will start, claiming will start, and shouting get on top of their voice tone, then the elderly will say i am not your mate, so you dare not talk to me like that neither can correct me even in a situation where the youth hired the elderly for domestic or mechanical labour work, though some may strike back with harsh tone and provoking slang but some other uses

their discretion. now the reaction was pushed out by the

quality of action passed towards him by the opposite

and he jacked back for it, from this, it's explicit- character is the challenge. Perhaps, what you give you get. You may be aged but be displaced action wise, 

Character deformation will surely make relations between corporate and informal interaction dead. though it's true that the elder have to be tolerate and the other side of the coin must be the youth too must be enduring, wise to control self in order for peace must reign. 

Respect is not Age,it is reciprocal, you give me, i give 

you back irrespective of age but there are some elders

who downgrade the morale of some set of youth who are careless  dumping their own rightful thinking for some bad head elders who

brainwashed them to carry out barbaric act of killing like the 

suicide bombing. But this happen when the youth is 

wrongly placed from the beginning by their parent. The parent who never had any plan for them. just given birth to without laid down

plan on how to groom them to be useful in the community. 

This is very common in Africa specifically in the Westhern part of Africa where children were born uncontrollably basically to over

populate the other tribe for some kind of selfish reasons. 

They will be indoctrinated to bind themselves with 

explosive weapons for killing, and destructions with wrong believe 

that their going to have seven crowns or virgin as 

wives in heaven- what a fable!.

And that's my reason for saying wisdom is not age

and age is not respect but it's reciprocal due to 

quality of character or actions given.

The wise play by the golden rule,- the quality of actions,

they are not moved by your age, give me bread, i 

will give it back, give me snack i will give it back, tooth

for tooth, eye for eye, it is not age. When you fuck up,

 you are fucked down, so everyone have to be in right

standing dealing with others. No body is superior 

above the other, all human are equal before God 

and that's the way it must remain.

Yinka Davis grace the occasion of the international women's day celebration by Wema bank plc, Nigeria at Oriental hotel, Lagos this week.